Mother’s Day, as recognized by the Hallmark holiday cards, is traditionally one that runs to saccharine.
There are lots of flowery sentiments. Everyone loves moms (and apple pie). Just ask any of our politicians, who are quick to champion “family values” on the hustings.
Mothers in their idealized form are easy to adore. (Think of Kate Middleton, who hours after giving birth this week, stepped out in front of the paparazzi looking like she just had a day at the spa.)
But most mothers, and parents in general, struggle in ways we find hard to acknowledge.
As a society, we still don’t do enough to help. We don’t have to look too far to find examples.
Consider the White Rock councillor who recently felt compelled to share his distaste for the sight of pregnant women’s bodies.
Closer to home, every time the topic of daycare comes up in council chambers, you’d think neighbours feared living next to wolverine compounds rather than places that help parents care for small humans.
Many mothers face more serious disadvantages. Single mothers try to provide for their kids on thoroughly inadequate funds. Programs that provide support for kids who have physical, mental or behavioural challenges are chronically under-resourced.
The truth is, where we put our support and our dollars is where the rubber hits the road on family values. Helping mothers do the important job of raising the next generation will mean everything to the world we face in the future.
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