REMEMBER to value the voyage. As the often frantic holiday season engulfs us once again, let's take time to appreciate the day-by-day activities.
Recently, I had to take three flights instead of one to get to my destination. At first, the prospect of spending so much extra time flying and at airports dismayed me.
But then, since I had no alternative, I decided I would simply enjoy the voyage.
I checked out a few shops and did some people watching. I smiled at the less frantic passersby and they smiled back.
When I reached my destination, I actually had a smile on my face - even though the trip had taken almost all day instead of only a few hours.
It's amazing what a simple change of attitude can do.
Most of the year, this column focuses on managing your dollars and cents. But every year around now I like to focus on reminding people that there is more to life than money.
Carpe diem - seize the day - has always been my motto. Let's add to that, "enjoy the day."
Take time to smell the roses although at this time of year they probably come from Ecuador.
Enjoy the feeling of filling up your gas tank after running on almost empty.
Plan special meals with friends so you actually have time to sit down and enjoy their company.
Feel how safe and snug a bed warmed by an electric blanket can be when you slide between the sheets after coming in from a cold, wet night.
Try to do a little less so you have more time to treasure what you are doing.
Yes, the destination is important. But the voyage you take to get there - at any time of the year - can have so much more value if you give it a chance to maximize its yield for you.
Mike Grenby is a columnist and independent personal financial advisor; he'll answer questions in this column as space allows but cannot reply personally - email [email protected].
